Sunday, June 19, 2011

SELF CONFIDENCE, Juby Chacko

SELF CONFIDENCE

Self-confidence is the confidence one has in oneself, one's knowledge,
and one's abilities. It is the confidence of the type: "I can do
this". "I have the ability to do this". Self-confidence is the one
thing that is much more important than many other abilities and
traits. If you do not have self-confidence, what you do will never
become fruitful at all. The fruits of what you do without
self-confidence are lost. A moral person is the one who fight for
justice in the society, and if one lacks self confidence one can never
work for justice.

Genuine self-confidence is the forerunner of achievements.
Self-confidence integrates the powers of mind and body and focuses
them towards the goals which are moral. Only such a concentrated
energy can reach the goal. Self-confidence is the first step to
progress, development, achievement and success. Even if you have a lot
of abilities and a lot of knowledge, if you do not have
Self-confidence you cannot be a success. But, on the contrary, even if
you have only average abilities and knowledge, if you have an
unfailingly true self-confidence, chances are that you achieve what
you want to. The successes and achievements in turn will strengthen
your self-confidence further. People like, respect, believe and trust
persons who are self-confident. And if people like, respect, believe
and trust us we can motivate them to lead a moral life.

Personally the feeling of self confidence arises in me sometimes but
not with any great intensity. I suppose it is because I am not yet in
an advanced state in my practice of self confidence. But it is a great
relief for me to feel and to know that I do not HAVE TO behave in a
certain manner, or think in certain or achieve any particular result
however desirable. It is all going to come to nothing in the end; the
fretful ego is going to be extinguished so why take it so seriously.

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